*Are you happy at the moment?
I have happy moments and choose to focus on creating joyful memories with my family.
*If you could go back and say anything to your 16-year-old self now – what would it be?
I would tell my 16-year-old self: Don’t take people, time, resources or opportunities for granted.
*What’s the most important thing you’ve learned this year?
What I’ve learned so far this year is that I am responsible for how I respond to a situation but not for how someone else reacts to it.
*What do you most want to achieve in the next 12 months?
I want to launch my #LovesBridgesGap compassion project on Raising Great Men.com and the #19DaysofHealing initiative with my business partner, Aleasa Word.
*What’s your secret to happiness?
Playing with my four-year-old son helps me to see the world through his eyes and become more curious about the world.
*What one ritual or practice keeps you grounded?
Writing in my gratitude journal keeps me grounded.
*What’s your biggest regret?
Dropping out of Columbia University graduate school.
*What’s the most important lesson you’ve taught your kid(s)?
To practice integrity in public and private. Integrity is your badge of honor.
*What bad habit would you most like to change about yourself?
I would like to stop feeling the need to prove myself.
*Aside from motherhood/fatherhood and marriage what are you most proud of in your life?
I am most proud of working full-time and going to college full-time while maintaining a 3.5 average.
*When were you happiest?
I was happiest when I was a little girl and I felt that I invincible and unstoppable.
*What ten words best describe you?
Funny, smart, attentive, compassionate, quirky, creative, encouraging, thoughtful, private, and decisive.
Marie Roker-Jones, founder of RaisingGreatMen.com, real talk about raising men of character and the brain child behind #ManYouWantToBe™, programs that focus on helping boys to manage their anger “mind up” not “man up”. Marie has more than 15 years experience and current history of providing training and development services with leading Fortune 500 companies. She is a Certified Breakthrough Parenting® Instructor, Intrinsic Coach® in Health and Wellness, and certified Male Life Skills Trainer. Marie is the senior editor of the Raising Boy section of The Good Men Project.