10 From GEM:
10 Ways To Cultivate Compassionate
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
Being compassionate requires that you take a good look at the sufferings and problems of other people, but it’s not about feeling pity or sorry for someone. It goes much deeper than that. True compassion requires that one not only recognize suffering, but also do something altruistic to help alleviate it. One who practices compassion never fails to invite joy and fulfillment into her life. Need to build your capacity for compassion? Follow one, two, or all of these steps and watch yours blossom.
1. Start Your Day With Appreciation