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Working Mother Woes: Why They Can Be Out Of This World!

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Working Mother Woes:
Why They Can Be Out Of This World!

 

Oh, my heart broke into a million little pieces when Ella showed me this piece the other day. It’s about Karen Nyberg, a working wife and mother whose job often times takes her on the road. Well, more like outer space.

Nyberg is an astronaut; she became the 50th woman to go to space when she flew to The International Space Station aboard Discovery in 2008. Now, she’s about to become only the ninth woman ever to fly to the space station for a long duration mission; she’ll be gone for six months.

Nyberg’s son Jack, is three-years-old so you can imagine how difficult the decision must be for her, choosing to leave her son on Terra Firma for six months.

I’m right there with her, even if I stay within earth’s orbit for my travels. It’s the lament of nearly every working mother who wonders aloud,  “Am I doing the right thing?”

I thought about it a lot when I had that big gig years ago and had to commute from Dallas to New York for eight months.

I think about it a lot now while traveling for Sweet Retreats, Exhale on Aspire and another, as yet unnamed TV show I’m taping.

But there’s something Nyberg said that had me standing on my chair cheering.

“You always wonder if you’re doing the right things for your children,” said Nyberg, who is married to fellow astronaut Doug Hurley. Hurley piloted Atlantis on the final flight of the shuttle program in 2011. “I’ve struggled with: ‘Is it a good thing for me to leave my 3-year-old for six months?’ This is a dream I’ve had since I was a young child myself. I don’t think I’d be setting a good example for my son if I gave that up.

 

Yes.. THIS!

This is one of the very reasons I wrote Good Enough Mother and why we work so hard on the site now. Just because you become a mother doesn’t mean that your hopes, dreams and aspirations have to die so that those of others may live. Nyberg is a working mother doing what she needs to do to feed herself, her soul.

It’s the decision I had to make when I landed that big gig. It’s the decision I still make as a working mother.

See I know that I’m the best to my kids when I’m good to myself. That means I need to work. They know that and I agree with Nyberg in that I wouldn’t be setting a good example for them if I didn’t pursue the goals I have set out to accomplish for myself.

Some might say it’s selfish; I say it’s self-preservation.

I have learned a few things in my time as a working mom.

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BEING AWAY MAKES THE KIDS
APPRECIATE YOU MORE

Casey Cole and Rene

Maybe it’s just my kids but I somehow doubt it. When I’m there, Casey and Cole seem to have a new appreciation for me (and me for them, too.)

Read more:  Guest Posting: 5 Things I Love About My Mom!

IT’S GOOD FOR THEM

 Buff-and-the-kids

I think it’s important for kids to develop relationships with people other than their parents or in my case, their other parent.  Casey and Cole needed to deepen their relationship with their father, which happened when they didn’t have me to rely on all the time.

Read more:  Monday Morning Motivation: Cell Phones, Careers And Short-Circuiting The Blame Game

IT’S GOOD FOR ME

Rene Glam

I get to remember what it’s like to take care of one person: me (well sort of; you know you always have a foot on the home front) . I was just telling Cole last night how I sort of live like a rock star while on the road. You should have seen his eyes when I told him that I sometimes order room service and sleep in my clothes. Why? Because I CAN! I actually think he thought that was cool. It is for me anyway.. (Hey I do brush my teeth each night tho.. )

Read more:  Where In The World Is Good Enough Mother? Sedona, Baby!

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So how do you feel when you have to travel and be away from your kids? Is it good for you? DO you make the most of it or are you miserable away from your family?

More from GEM:
Where In The World Is #TeamGEM? EVERYWHERE! (VIDEO)

Monday Morning Motivation: If You Build It (WELL), They Will Come

LOOOOOK—> Sweet Retreats Coming Sunday To A TV Near You!

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