Wow. Wow, wow, wow the ick factor was running kind of high this morning when I got a peek of this story on ABC’s Good Morning America. 41-year-old James Hooker, a former high school teacher in Modesto, California, quit his job, left his family and ran off with one of his former students, 18-year-old Jordan Powers. Let that soak in for a moment.
According to the letter of the law, what Hooker did was not illegal since, according to the couple, Powers was 18 before there was any sort of physical contact. But Powers’ mother is not so sure. Tammie Powers says she found text messages and long phone calls between the two, before Jordan was 18. Here’s the piece that ran on GMA.
I really don’t even know where to start with this one except to say, is NOTHING sacred? Aren’t there some lines that just should not be crossed? I say yes and this is one of them.
Ten years from now, I don’t think this would be a big deal; heck I’m in my own May-December romance. But there’s something that seems sordid about this. Hooker, as Powers’ teacher, obviously spent a lot of time with her. What did he tell her in that time? Was he, as the therapist says, acting like a sexual predator, “grooming” his victim with a watchful eye on the calendar? And if it was Powers putting the moves on Hooker, just by virtue of his life experience, Hooker should have been the one to short circuit that liaison. According to the therapist he couldn’t do that because of his pathological immaturity.
Dr. Marshall talked about the couple’s shared paranoia, evident when Hooker bristled when asked if their relationship would last. But the other thing that came through loud and clear was Hooker’s immaturity, which Dr. Marshall also noted. When Hooker said, “love conquers all”, I think I spit out my OJ. Anyone who’s been married for any length of time knows that while love is important, that is most definitely not all you need.
So the question is, was Hooker in love or out of bounds? (I’m asking only with regard to him since he is the older of the two). Should he have backed away, no RUN away from the relationship? Or do they have a right to be together since they’re both of legal age?
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Okay, once again, is Hooker out of Bounds Or In Love?