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Anonymous - 01/17/2008 09:57 PM
I am a 30 year old woman, married 2 years with a small child. I have been working extra hours alot of projects and I work with this man who has been married over 9 years with a small child too. He is the opposite of my husband, holder, more "put together" and just damn sexy to me. We have started working alot of projects together and one thing has led to another, we are soon walking out together giving eachother rides to our cars and making out. We have both admitted we have fallen for eachother but know we have 'other lives'. I love my husband but this weekend thinking about everything I wonder if I am 'in-love' with this man????

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Holy Cow! This young woman needs a reality check. Good answer Rene. Office Romance are off limits whether married or single. They can only lead to huge problems especially if the so called "romance" is over. What about hurting the children and the other wife who put up with this man. Like Rene said, have you seen his bad side at all. He puts his best side up front at work. Maybe because it's new, fun, and exciting to them both, but this is "lust" honey NOT "Love."

Sorry for sounding tough because this was done to me. Now I am divorced, he is not with the girl and is on a road to no where.

Just a concerned person who hates to see others get hurt espcially the innocent, the children.

Cindy Papale, Breast Cancer Survivor
Miami, Florida
Author to The Empty Cup Runneth Over
tabitha54@gmail.com
Anonymous
09/06/2008 05:39 PM
BTW above is from Rene
Anonymous
01/24/2008 04:27 PM
I mean, BELOW is from Rene
Anonymous
01/24/2008 04:27 PM
Hold your horses honey!

This is how I see it. You and this other guy, who see each other during work hours, claim to have fallen in love. But how much of this man do you really know? You never see the "bad side", you never see him leaving his underwear on the floor or the toilet seat up. You never see him with his just-waking-up breath or his foul moods. You may think you've fallen in love with him but until you see the whole person, warts, wrinkles and flaws, you don't have the total picture.

You asked for advice so here it is.. RUN FAR, RUN FAST! You can't fix what's wrong with your marriage by introducing a third party. Stop the rides to the car, working on projects together and think about how much you stand to lose (two child and a husband) before giving into momentary pleasure that is based on a half picture.

good luck
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01/24/2008 04:14 PM



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