DON’T FORGET ABOUT THE REINDEER
Creative Commons/pinkypeaI have the oddest kids who think about the weirdest things. One year, after writing the obligatory letter/email to Santa (yes, there are places where you can email Santa now since snail mail is soooo last generation), and baking cookies for Santa, Justin asked, “What about the reindeer?” Thus began our own tradition of leaving carrots out for the reindeer. Sure, the whole carrots gets left out with the plate of cookies, but Santa, nice dude that he is, will take the carrots with him, as is proven Christmas morning when the nibbled carrot ends are tossed in the backyard – I mean – when they fall off of the roof after the reindeer eat them. (Just get used to the taste of cinnamon cookies and carrots – it’s an acquired taste.)
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SANTA PACKAGING
Creative Commons/najjieThere is so much Christmas wrapping out there – how exactly does the man who knows all also stand out? In my house, it was literally plain brown paper. The local butcher or meat station in the grocery store tend to be really understanding people. I’ve also heard of the Sunday comics, aluminum foil, and one family friend who believed that the fun was the toy, not the packaging, and would stay up all night taking everything out of the boxes and setting up a little wonderland with all the new toys.
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HE KNOWS IF YOU’VE BEEN BAD OR GOOD
Creative Commons/Chica and JoEven though my oldest had outgrown the man in red, my youngest wouldn’t follow for a few years. Being a single parent means sometimes Christmas is a little lean. So, with a promise to my oldest that if we would just please be patient, his gift would come soon after Christmas, but I needed him to play along for his younger brother. To help sell the “behave” theme that Christmas brings, Nick was seen opening a brown paper lunch sack full of charcoal briquettes from the backyard bbq grill attached to a note that said, “I know what you did – be nicer to your brother if you want a better gift next year.” It worked – Justin believed for a little while longer, and Nick was reminded (by Justin of course) that if he didn’t want coal again next year, he was going to have to be nice. Two birds… one charcoal brick.
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WHO GETS THE CREDIT?
Creative Commons/i be GINZSanta gets the best gifts… for most houses. It never dawned on me that maybe, for all the hard work I do, to0, maybe I deserve the oooohs and aaaaaws that Santa’s gifts always seem to get. Now that my kids no longer have that special magic, it’s too late for me, but one of my best friends admits that Santa has always brought the small gifts from the list so that Mom and Dad get the credit they so deserve for the big expressions of excitement.
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CELEBRATE FAMILY
So, like I said, our trip started off with an invite to our adopted family’s own celebration. It is an admittedly large family, so the ‘grab bag’ method is used where each person gets only one name. It’s not the gifts that are important but that’s what brings everyone together. While under one roof for this one time a year, they use the opportunity to have a huge dinner, play games fun for both children and adults, and simply enjoy the family time they don’t get the rest of the year. The games are always the same, which leads to a lot of in-fun smack talking and stories told from one year to the next, and isn’t that really what the holidays are about?
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So those are a few of the fun and unique ways my family and friends enjoy the holidays – what are some unique traditions you are most proud of?
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