Hello, Rene! I follow you on Twitter and Facebook and saw your post about a man with a few baby mamas and thought I’d ask you a question I’ve always had. Several of my boyfriends have cheated on me and I usually end up hurt, not so much by the cheating, but because I am usually close to his sisters and other family members. In both instances, my man at the time, would bring his other women around his family and I didn’t understand why no one would at least warn me. The problem now is that my brother, Mark, may be cheating on his wife and I’ve brought it up to him and he told me to mind my own business. She and I are friends. Do I tell her what is going on or should I just keep my mouth shut? I really like her and don’t want to hurt her like I was.
Dear Secret Keeper:
Wow, well there are so many layers of your story that I fear it’s going to take a little bit for Good Enough Mother to wade through it all. And while I understand your hurt, you better keep your lip zipped and here’s why.