The Break-Up Blame Game
I met a guy about a year ago and we’ve been in love, but I fell pregnant and everything changed. He started pushing me away and so I found comfort from my ex, who seemed to understand my situation better. My ex knew that I was committed to my relationship and respected that. When my boyfriend found out about it, he got angry but we managed to sort it out but I found out he was seeing someone else already, as soon as I left home for school he brought up the issue again and this time he dumped me for it and saying that its all my fault and that he’s not the one who got me pregnant.
Am I really to blame here or did he just want to leave?
Looking for some answers
Sounds like you’re a little confused and I don’t want to dump on you any more than necessary but WHAT THE HELL? There are a lot of things in your letter that give me cause for pause and even at the end, I have more questions than answers. I’ll try to piece together what I can and hope you are able to figure out a few things. You don’t mention your age but there are some cues in here that lead me to believe you might be young; we’ve all been there so I can’t fault you for being being confused. But you need to take stock of this situation, make some changes and learn how to keep from making the same mistakes. So here’s what I’m thinking..